I recently saw a video on YouTube in which people my age (80) and above were asked about lessons learned over their lifetime. One gentleman responded that he should have made love more often. Nothing better he said. Really?
Twice in my blog I have written about a Nameless Girl I met when I was nineteen years-old. I was home on vacation from Penn and she was a student at the State University of New York at Oswego.
I was driving her back to her sorority at the end of our second date. When I stopped in front of the house, she threw herself at me and we engaged in heavy duty "making out." Great!
When I returned home that night, instead of thinking about the end of the date, I focused on her behavior that afternoon when she had acted in a very bossy manner, which I didn't appreciate. I decided to unilaterally end our budding relationship...without confronting her. Ghosting! Needs an apology.
I should have focused on the end of our date in which she showed she obviously wanted an intimate relationship with me. Other than the bossy behavior, I liked her. I wanted intimacy, as well.
We could have talked about what had upset me that afternoon...and resolved it. Maybe?
We could have gone to second base...or even hit a home run. Maybe?
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